Be intimate with each other. And I don’t mean only sexual intimacy which is, of course, important as well. When your partner feels she can tell you what she is really thinking and feeling you’re on the way to true intimacy. What’s even better is when you sense her moods and thoughts without being told. This level of intimacy can lead to new levels of physical intimacy. However, things don’t always work out as well as we hope. Some women prefer to divide their intimacies, emotions and feelings for Fred, the physical stuff for Paul. If you’re her Fred you may have to look elsewhere for what you need. But what you learned from her intimate feelings can be applied to someone else who wants to share your intimacies, all of them.
Learn to make it intense. We are not only talking about camping, although pleasure under the stars can be a real pleasure. Especially if you don’t mind the mosquitoes. Be intense. Don’t do things half-way or even three-quarters way. There is no such thing as a 400 hitter in baseball and hasn’t been one since Ted Williams in the early 1940s. For non-baseball fans a 400 hitter gets a hit 40% of the time. If you are doing things right 40% of the time, before long you’ll be out. No question of getting to first base. So be intense. This means starting real easy. Don’t rush things. Read her signals and before long you’ll be rounding the bases. Together.
How can a couple keep up the sexual interest? This is a capital question. Vary your act. You don’t have to do things the same way time after time. A simple change of position can get those juices flowing. Turn on some music and try to keep time with the beat. Kiss longer, slower, deeper, softer, and perhaps, slurpier. See where she’s ticklish. See where you’re ticklish.
No matter what you’re doing in the bedroom, as elsewhere, be intelligent. Use your head and not just to butt, although with her permission that can be fun too, if you’re intelligent about it. Never forget that a man’s number one sexual organ is between his ears. Her too. As that old joke goes, if you want to spend more time on, don’t be a moron.
July - 14 - 2011 Comments Off